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Old 03-10-2010, 08:46 AM   #16
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Default Re: Is oral sex taste a clue she cheated?

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there's very little that her hoo-haa will tell you if she's cheating, unless she was cheating on you with coffee or lots of fruits (consumption of such changes the taste of down there)
I know a woman who won't eat tuna fish if she thinks she may be getting some action later for the same reason. Although I've never verified that it has any effect with her or anyone else.


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The question is: do you think she was worried that since I had already been inside, I had pulled out some semen, and thus would have tasted it?
Pulled out some semen? Do you mean that you ejaculated? Or do you mean pulled out some semen from the secret semen stash where she keeps all the semen that she gathers from men other than you?

This guy who worked on her house, he wasn't named Kilroy by any chance was he? Is so, perhaps she was more concerned about what you'd see than what you'd taste.

Ok seriously, there are a ton of possible explainations that don't involve other men. Its been my experience that many (but certainly not all) little girls are taught at an early age that the area between their legs is a dirty and shameful place. And this can sometimes translate into women being uncomfortable with men going down on them unless they've had a chance to wash up recently. There is lots of chemistry going on down there and it varies from day to day. So its not unreasonable to imagine that there may be certain days where she'd be embarrassed if you had an unpleasant experience. And it is also not unreasonable to imagine that she would be embarrased to even admit to you that she's afraid she'll taste unpleasent because of X whatever X really is. In fact whose to say that she didn't have a bad experience with an ex-partner who told her she was unclean after oral sex? That sort of thing can scar a person.
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Old 03-10-2010, 09:03 AM   #17
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And besides all of that, you've been with her three years. Do you know her at all?
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Old 03-10-2010, 09:17 AM   #18
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So my question is: was she really concerned I would taste another man's semen?
Uh... unless you're extremely familiar with the taste of your own semen, how would you be able to tell the difference? Unless you've previously sampled from a variety of other men and made notes of the differences. Both of these thoughts are making me a little nauseous.

If you think that she's cheating or there's something "off" in your relationship then you should talk to her about it. She may have been telling you about that tradesman because she wanted a reaction out of you. Maybe she feels that you're the one who's gone "off" or is tired of waiting around for more commitment from you than your toothbrush and shaving cream in her bathroom cabinet. It could simply have been that she just wasn't feeling it that day (for millions of reasons that are beyond speculation). If you think there's a problem, then talk about it, you'll only drive yourself crazy coming up with bad scenarios otherwise.
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Old 03-10-2010, 03:11 PM   #19
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I think your really overthinking the whole semen vagina thing too far! The comments out of her mouth to really worry about are if she was complaining about her vagina being swollen or sore when you two havent had sex for a few days or longer. Thats a bad sign. If your concerned about something, perhaps addressing it in a calmer way and maybe she wont get so angry, or she could be hiding something. One will never really know but it also comes down to the fact if you trust her or not. I would question the fact your items were used but she also could have used them herself. Keep an eye out for other odd things but the original reason of this post, i wouldnt freak about it.
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